It's been almost two years since Chris Brown kicked Rhianna's ass. So why is she acting like she just got her ass kicked yesterday? Then Eminem makes that song about domestic violence and have her sing the hook. She wants to act like she is such and victim, but then turns around and bumps and grinds (very poorly I might add, I see why Chris was cheating). Anyway, I think she should go somewhere and sit down and stop milking the abuse thing. She has the support of Usher; of course, because Chris Brown was slotted to take his place in the industry. I just got the most terrible thought. What if she went back and told Usher how Chris Brown really felt about him out of the public eye. She started her performance, reminding the audience that she got beat-up, but then jump into the stage and became a semi-whore. I say semi, because a whore dances better than that.
I don't know why she was so shocked Chris was cheating on her. I think that Rhianna think far too much of herself. In the spirit of Halle Berry and Vanessa Williams. "Honey men don't care if you shit gold bricks. If they are a cheater they will cheat." History has shown us all that, and being pretty isn't a 100% you won't be cheated on. It just mean you might be appreciated more. Just because you are pretty, doesn't mean life is going to be all wine and roses. That's what makes for hard life lessons. The belief that all the glamour and circumstance of stardom makes you infallible. But she's young, but I don't think she's learning. She's doing commercials for the American Cancer Association, and not some Woman's Survival Group that focuses on battered women, their recovery and betterment after the fact. So with all the attention she's trying to bring to the fact she got beat-up, I don't believe that she feels that she is actually a battered woman.
She needs to take a page from Beyonce and find a man that ain't fine, but a good man. A man who loves her, respects her and works with her to create a better future. If you can be friends as well as partners then you have something. I don't think the fact that she can dress skimpy, dance around ( did I say badly) and try and be B. doesn't make her a survivor. It makes her still a lost child. She was beat in February of 2009, and a woman really involved in an abusive relationship has been beaten countless times by now. When her bruises heal, she won't have a stage or the money to change her fake hair, every other day, or dress badly in slutty outfits. She will be forced to go back into the real world and salvage her life. She didn't empower anyone with that spectacle. I was mad at Chris Brown, but if she keeps this up, I might go buy his album - - not really.
All the people to are supporting this "act" that is being dragged out far to long, are just as stuck on living in the past than she is. What she needs to do is move on, and the only reminder she should be focused on is that of reaching out to women who are afraid for their lives everyday they live. I'm seeing too much of her, without seeing any substance and maturity. She's sucking the life out of 15 minutes of her life. She is exploiting herself - - if that is possible. Yeah, Madonna and Brittany Spears does it all the time. Let it go, and be a woman about it. Stop trying to further Usher's career by down grading Chris Brown, by keeping that small incident in everyones mind. Chris Brown is a very talented man, and you can't ruin him. You need to pray that he isn't praying and asking God to forgive him, because all of your trying to mess up his life, you might just mess up your own!
God don't like ugly of any kind. Just because you were a victim, doesn't give you the right to stay the victim and try and do him harm. You are only working against yourself. You are still stuck, and he's trying to move on. Don't let your sins find you out. What's up with Jada Pinkett-Smith supporting here messy mess. I always thought she was a real woman? She must want her daughter to work with Rhianna or something. Well, I tell you what Rhianna is no role model. She surely isn't a woman, because a real woman would have moved on. Rhianna thinks she is cute. You know those girls from high school who always had a boyfriend, wanted to be center of attention and be the one everybody looks to for what to wear and act. This is not a popularity contest, but your life. Sure you are young, but you've been going through grown-up thing and need to handle things better.
My advice to Rhianna is to take a much needed break. Get yourself some real help dealing with you, because I think you might have more issues than Chris Brown. You need to let go and start making your career about your talent (what little you have) and not about one mis-fortunate incident. I can't tell you how to live your life, but you should really move on. I don't know anyone who has something so terrible happen to them and want to keep it on the mind of everyone involved, which is the entire world - - almost. I don't know what Em was thinking, but this monster that is Celebrity is a bitch. They will do anything for a hit, exploit one another, try and be someone else and work to end another person's career...SMH.
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